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James Gross

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Licensed for 46 years

Law Degree

Awards

Primary Practice Area

Business

Language

English

About

Managing Partner of Thyden Gross & Callahan, LLP, a law firm in Chevy Chase, Maryland.  Mediator, collaborative lawyer and arbitrator.  Author or co-author of four books, “File for Divorce in Maryland, Virginia and the District of Columbia”, “Money and Divorce”,“Fathers’ Rights (The Best Interest of Your Child Includes You)” and "Splitxville".  Editor of two blogs, “Maryland Divorce Legal Crier” and “Fathers’ Rights (Not Just Every Other Weekend)”.  Speaker on family law at various seminars and appearances on television and radio.  Selected among top lawyers in Maryland and DC by Super Lawyers Magazine and Washingtonian Magazine, rated “Superb” by Avvo.com and “av” by Martindale-Hubbell. More You can read more of my life experiences if you want to know how I got here.  I was born in Jefferson City, Missouri, and grew up in Hannibal, Missouri, boyhood home of Mark Twain.  When I was 16, I took a correspondence course and passed a government test to obtain a First Class Radio Telephone Operator License, and got a job as an announcer, news reporter and engineer at my dad’s radio station.I studied Chemical Engineering at the University of Missouri in Columbia, and graduated in 1970 with a BSChE.  Procter & Gamble hired me to work in its International Division in Cincinnati, Ohio.  I was there for about a year when Uncle Sam drafted me for the Viet Nam War.  I spent a year producing television shows for the Signal Corp. at Fort Gordon, Georgia, and another year working on long range patrol rations as a chemical engineer at the U.S. Army Labs in Natick, Massachusetts.When I got out of the army, I went to law school at the University of Missouri in Columbia, where I made the law review and clerked for the Public Defender.  I graduated with a JD in 1975.  The Federal Communications hired me to come to Washington, DC, and work as an attorney in the Broadcast Division.  After two years, Satellite Business Systems, a partnership of IBM, Comsat and Aetna.  During that time, I earned a Master of Laws in Taxation from Georgetown University in 1982.Trammel, Rand, Nathan & Lincoln hired me from Satellite Business Systems after two years, and I set up my own practice a year after that.  I merged that firm into Amram, Hahn & Gross where I was the managing partner and worked on real estate tax appeals.  Whiteford, Taylor and Preston hired me from that firm, and I co-founded Thyden Gross & Callahan, LLP, a year later.I am past president of Metropolitan Washington Mensa and the Collaborative Law Society.  I have served on the Board of Directors of Sheet Metal Manufacturing, Inc., Affiliated Community Counselors, Inc., and the DC Capitols Track and Field Club.  I play racketball and I live in Chevy Chase, Maryland, with my wife, two sons and two cats.

Practices Areas

Business

Divorce and separation

Family

Language

English

Contact

THYDEN GROSS AND CALLAHAN, LLP5425 Wisconsin Avenue, Suite 600Chevy Chase, MD, 20815-4639

Office: (301) 246-2892

Website: N/A

Reviews

Andrew
January 26, 2015

Jim Gross provided me the highest caliber, personalized counsel and advice over the course of years, from the time I separated from my spouse through my final divorce and then later regarding a subsequent followup tust and estate matter. He is conscientiously careful and even conservative in the time he bills, thereby removing at least some of the anxiety from an invariably stressful experience. As a lawyer myself I have worked with and against many attorneys, and Jim Gross stands out as the only lawyer I would wholeheartedly recommend without reservation. I can affirm from my own experience and that of friends and colleagues that Jim is knowledgable, responsive and trustworthy to highest degree in his family law field.

anonymous
February 11, 2017

My wife and I had been going through a rough patch in our marriage. Mr Gross' counsel was excellent. He took his work very seriously and always looking for the best solution possible.

anonymous
January 8, 2021

I am extremely pleased that I hired Jim Gross. Before and during our first conversation, I was quite nervous, stressed and unsure what to do and what to even say. His calm demeanor was reassuring and immediately made me feel at ease and protected. He handled my case with professionalism and in the end, I appreciated his no-nonsense way of getting things done. This was my first time hiring a family law/divorce attorney and I was struck by the commitment it takes to represent and work with clients through the bitter end. He heard me and understood what I wanted to accomplish, and he delivered. His level of responsiveness and calmness was simply a godsend and personally inspired me, above and beyond my case. I highly recommend him. In fact, I look forward to getting a copy of Money and Divorce.

Paul
June 24, 2020

I first retained Mr Gross in 2010 for help with my ex-wife’s shenanigans. I was immediately impressed by his straightforward yet reassuring manner. He responded to calls and emails the same day and gently reined me in when my emotions tried to outrun my brain. He worked well with my ex’s attorney, and protected me from her attempts to shape reality to her own design. Since then I have consulted him off and on for various matters and he has always treated me as if I were his only client, and as if we had just spoken a few days earlier. I most highly recommend Mr Gross to anyone wanting to win a case and retain their sanity.

Sonja
September 25, 2017

I contacted several lawyers before finding James, and I did not like how bombastic they were. James is methodical, listens, and works effectively. I had a nasty custody case and a very difficult ex who was out for punishment. James and his colleagues handled his antics with aplomb. They also worked to get us into mediation (something my ex was refusing at first), where we ended up with a mediated agreement that included every single thing I wanted from the beginning. James is highly responsive and never failed to give great advice from someone who has seen it all, or an encouraging word when things seemed bleak. I would recommend him enthusiastically to anyone who needs an excellent family law attorney.

anonymous
September 20, 2017

I've reached out to Mr. Gross on two separate ocassions over the past 4 years with specific custody and visitation questions. I was fully prepared to pay for several hours of his time, but Mr. Gross was able to answer all my questions via email and then over the phone, saving me a lot of time and money. I was able to resolve all issues with my ex-spouse, using Mr. Gross's advice, without having to go to court. I would absolutely use Mr. Gross's services again in the future.

Joseph
July 12, 2017

Jim Gross handled my divorce proceeding flawlessly. His legal advice was right on the mark throughout the process. His nudging of my spouse's attorney was very effective when progress became stalled. Jim exudes an aura of confidence and competence which was very reassuring as the matter moved forward. He was extremely responsive to my questions and concerns and contributed significantly to the favorable outcome of the separation agreement. He is level-headed, unflappable, and was a major calming influence during some stressful times. His knowledge of divorce law is outstanding. I enthusiastically recommend him to potential clients.

Emily
October 21, 2016

I used Mr. Gross for my divorce and he made me feel completely at ease that he would do the worrying for me. I valued that peace of mind, and appreciated that everything was being taken care of by Mr. Gross so that I could go about my life. He's extremely knowledgeable and fair and I would hire him again in an instant.

anonymous
May 3, 2016

Mr. Gross was excellent throughout my entire case. I had called several other attorneys for consultations and immediately after calling Mr. Gross he provided advice and a clear strategy. I retained him quickly after that. He was always informative throughout the process and I felt his hours billed were very fair. I would not hesitate to recommend him to anyone. My divorce was not the most complex in nature but I feel Mr. Gross' professionalism and knowledge would let him handle much more complex cases.

Stu
May 3, 2016

Jim is an incredibly affable professional. He helped us through a very difficult moment, drafting our Separation Agreement for the purpose of entering the process of divorce. When we met, we got right to it. There was absolutely no padding the cost, and he very graciously answered all of our questions even after he met his obligation to us. I highly recommend, and will most certainly reach out to Jim for any future needs.

Andrew
January 26, 2015

Jim Gross provided me the highest caliber, personalized counsel and advice over the course of years, from the time I separated from my spouse through my final divorce and then later regarding a subsequent followup tust and estate matter. He is conscientiously careful and even conservative in the time he bills, thereby removing at least some of the anxiety from an invariably stressful experience. As a lawyer myself I have worked with and against many attorneys, and Jim Gross stands out as the only lawyer I would wholeheartedly recommend without reservation. I can affirm from my own experience and that of friends and colleagues that Jim is knowledgable, responsive and trustworthy to highest degree in his family law field.

anonymous
February 11, 2017

My wife and I had been going through a rough patch in our marriage. Mr Gross' counsel was excellent. He took his work very seriously and always looking for the best solution possible.

anonymous
January 8, 2021

I am extremely pleased that I hired Jim Gross. Before and during our first conversation, I was quite nervous, stressed and unsure what to do and what to even say. His calm demeanor was reassuring and immediately made me feel at ease and protected. He handled my case with professionalism and in the end, I appreciated his no-nonsense way of getting things done. This was my first time hiring a family law/divorce attorney and I was struck by the commitment it takes to represent and work with clients through the bitter end. He heard me and understood what I wanted to accomplish, and he delivered. His level of responsiveness and calmness was simply a godsend and personally inspired me, above and beyond my case. I highly recommend him. In fact, I look forward to getting a copy of Money and Divorce.

Paul
June 24, 2020

I first retained Mr Gross in 2010 for help with my ex-wife’s shenanigans. I was immediately impressed by his straightforward yet reassuring manner. He responded to calls and emails the same day and gently reined me in when my emotions tried to outrun my brain. He worked well with my ex’s attorney, and protected me from her attempts to shape reality to her own design. Since then I have consulted him off and on for various matters and he has always treated me as if I were his only client, and as if we had just spoken a few days earlier. I most highly recommend Mr Gross to anyone wanting to win a case and retain their sanity.

Sonja
September 25, 2017

I contacted several lawyers before finding James, and I did not like how bombastic they were. James is methodical, listens, and works effectively. I had a nasty custody case and a very difficult ex who was out for punishment. James and his colleagues handled his antics with aplomb. They also worked to get us into mediation (something my ex was refusing at first), where we ended up with a mediated agreement that included every single thing I wanted from the beginning. James is highly responsive and never failed to give great advice from someone who has seen it all, or an encouraging word when things seemed bleak. I would recommend him enthusiastically to anyone who needs an excellent family law attorney.

anonymous
September 20, 2017

I've reached out to Mr. Gross on two separate ocassions over the past 4 years with specific custody and visitation questions. I was fully prepared to pay for several hours of his time, but Mr. Gross was able to answer all my questions via email and then over the phone, saving me a lot of time and money. I was able to resolve all issues with my ex-spouse, using Mr. Gross's advice, without having to go to court. I would absolutely use Mr. Gross's services again in the future.

Joseph
July 12, 2017

Jim Gross handled my divorce proceeding flawlessly. His legal advice was right on the mark throughout the process. His nudging of my spouse's attorney was very effective when progress became stalled. Jim exudes an aura of confidence and competence which was very reassuring as the matter moved forward. He was extremely responsive to my questions and concerns and contributed significantly to the favorable outcome of the separation agreement. He is level-headed, unflappable, and was a major calming influence during some stressful times. His knowledge of divorce law is outstanding. I enthusiastically recommend him to potential clients.

Emily
October 21, 2016

I used Mr. Gross for my divorce and he made me feel completely at ease that he would do the worrying for me. I valued that peace of mind, and appreciated that everything was being taken care of by Mr. Gross so that I could go about my life. He's extremely knowledgeable and fair and I would hire him again in an instant.

anonymous
May 3, 2016

Mr. Gross was excellent throughout my entire case. I had called several other attorneys for consultations and immediately after calling Mr. Gross he provided advice and a clear strategy. I retained him quickly after that. He was always informative throughout the process and I felt his hours billed were very fair. I would not hesitate to recommend him to anyone. My divorce was not the most complex in nature but I feel Mr. Gross' professionalism and knowledge would let him handle much more complex cases.

Stu
May 3, 2016

Jim is an incredibly affable professional. He helped us through a very difficult moment, drafting our Separation Agreement for the purpose of entering the process of divorce. When we met, we got right to it. There was absolutely no padding the cost, and he very graciously answered all of our questions even after he met his obligation to us. I highly recommend, and will most certainly reach out to Jim for any future needs.

Andrew
January 26, 2015

Jim Gross provided me the highest caliber, personalized counsel and advice over the course of years, from the time I separated from my spouse through my final divorce and then later regarding a subsequent followup tust and estate matter. He is conscientiously careful and even conservative in the time he bills, thereby removing at least some of the anxiety from an invariably stressful experience. As a lawyer myself I have worked with and against many attorneys, and Jim Gross stands out as the only lawyer I would wholeheartedly recommend without reservation. I can affirm from my own experience and that of friends and colleagues that Jim is knowledgable, responsive and trustworthy to highest degree in his family law field.

anonymous
February 11, 2017

My wife and I had been going through a rough patch in our marriage. Mr Gross' counsel was excellent. He took his work very seriously and always looking for the best solution possible.

anonymous
January 8, 2021

I am extremely pleased that I hired Jim Gross. Before and during our first conversation, I was quite nervous, stressed and unsure what to do and what to even say. His calm demeanor was reassuring and immediately made me feel at ease and protected. He handled my case with professionalism and in the end, I appreciated his no-nonsense way of getting things done. This was my first time hiring a family law/divorce attorney and I was struck by the commitment it takes to represent and work with clients through the bitter end. He heard me and understood what I wanted to accomplish, and he delivered. His level of responsiveness and calmness was simply a godsend and personally inspired me, above and beyond my case. I highly recommend him. In fact, I look forward to getting a copy of Money and Divorce.

Paul
June 24, 2020

I first retained Mr Gross in 2010 for help with my ex-wife’s shenanigans. I was immediately impressed by his straightforward yet reassuring manner. He responded to calls and emails the same day and gently reined me in when my emotions tried to outrun my brain. He worked well with my ex’s attorney, and protected me from her attempts to shape reality to her own design. Since then I have consulted him off and on for various matters and he has always treated me as if I were his only client, and as if we had just spoken a few days earlier. I most highly recommend Mr Gross to anyone wanting to win a case and retain their sanity.

Sonja
September 25, 2017

I contacted several lawyers before finding James, and I did not like how bombastic they were. James is methodical, listens, and works effectively. I had a nasty custody case and a very difficult ex who was out for punishment. James and his colleagues handled his antics with aplomb. They also worked to get us into mediation (something my ex was refusing at first), where we ended up with a mediated agreement that included every single thing I wanted from the beginning. James is highly responsive and never failed to give great advice from someone who has seen it all, or an encouraging word when things seemed bleak. I would recommend him enthusiastically to anyone who needs an excellent family law attorney.

anonymous
September 20, 2017

I've reached out to Mr. Gross on two separate ocassions over the past 4 years with specific custody and visitation questions. I was fully prepared to pay for several hours of his time, but Mr. Gross was able to answer all my questions via email and then over the phone, saving me a lot of time and money. I was able to resolve all issues with my ex-spouse, using Mr. Gross's advice, without having to go to court. I would absolutely use Mr. Gross's services again in the future.

Joseph
July 12, 2017

Jim Gross handled my divorce proceeding flawlessly. His legal advice was right on the mark throughout the process. His nudging of my spouse's attorney was very effective when progress became stalled. Jim exudes an aura of confidence and competence which was very reassuring as the matter moved forward. He was extremely responsive to my questions and concerns and contributed significantly to the favorable outcome of the separation agreement. He is level-headed, unflappable, and was a major calming influence during some stressful times. His knowledge of divorce law is outstanding. I enthusiastically recommend him to potential clients.

Emily
October 21, 2016

I used Mr. Gross for my divorce and he made me feel completely at ease that he would do the worrying for me. I valued that peace of mind, and appreciated that everything was being taken care of by Mr. Gross so that I could go about my life. He's extremely knowledgeable and fair and I would hire him again in an instant.

anonymous
May 3, 2016

Mr. Gross was excellent throughout my entire case. I had called several other attorneys for consultations and immediately after calling Mr. Gross he provided advice and a clear strategy. I retained him quickly after that. He was always informative throughout the process and I felt his hours billed were very fair. I would not hesitate to recommend him to anyone. My divorce was not the most complex in nature but I feel Mr. Gross' professionalism and knowledge would let him handle much more complex cases.

Stu
May 3, 2016

Jim is an incredibly affable professional. He helped us through a very difficult moment, drafting our Separation Agreement for the purpose of entering the process of divorce. When we met, we got right to it. There was absolutely no padding the cost, and he very graciously answered all of our questions even after he met his obligation to us. I highly recommend, and will most certainly reach out to Jim for any future needs.

Andrew
January 26, 2015

Jim Gross provided me the highest caliber, personalized counsel and advice over the course of years, from the time I separated from my spouse through my final divorce and then later regarding a subsequent followup tust and estate matter. He is conscientiously careful and even conservative in the time he bills, thereby removing at least some of the anxiety from an invariably stressful experience. As a lawyer myself I have worked with and against many attorneys, and Jim Gross stands out as the only lawyer I would wholeheartedly recommend without reservation. I can affirm from my own experience and that of friends and colleagues that Jim is knowledgable, responsive and trustworthy to highest degree in his family law field.

anonymous
February 11, 2017

My wife and I had been going through a rough patch in our marriage. Mr Gross' counsel was excellent. He took his work very seriously and always looking for the best solution possible.

anonymous
January 8, 2021

I am extremely pleased that I hired Jim Gross. Before and during our first conversation, I was quite nervous, stressed and unsure what to do and what to even say. His calm demeanor was reassuring and immediately made me feel at ease and protected. He handled my case with professionalism and in the end, I appreciated his no-nonsense way of getting things done. This was my first time hiring a family law/divorce attorney and I was struck by the commitment it takes to represent and work with clients through the bitter end. He heard me and understood what I wanted to accomplish, and he delivered. His level of responsiveness and calmness was simply a godsend and personally inspired me, above and beyond my case. I highly recommend him. In fact, I look forward to getting a copy of Money and Divorce.

Paul
June 24, 2020

I first retained Mr Gross in 2010 for help with my ex-wife’s shenanigans. I was immediately impressed by his straightforward yet reassuring manner. He responded to calls and emails the same day and gently reined me in when my emotions tried to outrun my brain. He worked well with my ex’s attorney, and protected me from her attempts to shape reality to her own design. Since then I have consulted him off and on for various matters and he has always treated me as if I were his only client, and as if we had just spoken a few days earlier. I most highly recommend Mr Gross to anyone wanting to win a case and retain their sanity.

Sonja
September 25, 2017

I contacted several lawyers before finding James, and I did not like how bombastic they were. James is methodical, listens, and works effectively. I had a nasty custody case and a very difficult ex who was out for punishment. James and his colleagues handled his antics with aplomb. They also worked to get us into mediation (something my ex was refusing at first), where we ended up with a mediated agreement that included every single thing I wanted from the beginning. James is highly responsive and never failed to give great advice from someone who has seen it all, or an encouraging word when things seemed bleak. I would recommend him enthusiastically to anyone who needs an excellent family law attorney.

anonymous
September 20, 2017

I've reached out to Mr. Gross on two separate ocassions over the past 4 years with specific custody and visitation questions. I was fully prepared to pay for several hours of his time, but Mr. Gross was able to answer all my questions via email and then over the phone, saving me a lot of time and money. I was able to resolve all issues with my ex-spouse, using Mr. Gross's advice, without having to go to court. I would absolutely use Mr. Gross's services again in the future.

Joseph
July 12, 2017

Jim Gross handled my divorce proceeding flawlessly. His legal advice was right on the mark throughout the process. His nudging of my spouse's attorney was very effective when progress became stalled. Jim exudes an aura of confidence and competence which was very reassuring as the matter moved forward. He was extremely responsive to my questions and concerns and contributed significantly to the favorable outcome of the separation agreement. He is level-headed, unflappable, and was a major calming influence during some stressful times. His knowledge of divorce law is outstanding. I enthusiastically recommend him to potential clients.

Emily
October 21, 2016

I used Mr. Gross for my divorce and he made me feel completely at ease that he would do the worrying for me. I valued that peace of mind, and appreciated that everything was being taken care of by Mr. Gross so that I could go about my life. He's extremely knowledgeable and fair and I would hire him again in an instant.

anonymous
May 3, 2016

Mr. Gross was excellent throughout my entire case. I had called several other attorneys for consultations and immediately after calling Mr. Gross he provided advice and a clear strategy. I retained him quickly after that. He was always informative throughout the process and I felt his hours billed were very fair. I would not hesitate to recommend him to anyone. My divorce was not the most complex in nature but I feel Mr. Gross' professionalism and knowledge would let him handle much more complex cases.

Stu
May 3, 2016

Jim is an incredibly affable professional. He helped us through a very difficult moment, drafting our Separation Agreement for the purpose of entering the process of divorce. When we met, we got right to it. There was absolutely no padding the cost, and he very graciously answered all of our questions even after he met his obligation to us. I highly recommend, and will most certainly reach out to Jim for any future needs.